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Hi Tink,
 
I am so thankful you have taken the initiative to put this site together. I would like to share my accident story and what I learned.
 
Many years ago I was out riding with friends for the day. It was such a beautiful day and the run was many miles with stops along the way for refreshments and hooking up with others. Well, instead of choosing responsible liquids, I followed what everybody else was doing . . . having a beer or two at each stop. It didn't feel wrong, until everything in fact did go wrong.
 
We were headed back home on a wonderful back country road and my friends were accomplished and skilled riders. Although I had been riding for a number of years, my skill level wasn't as good as theirs, and as the speeds increased, I not only forgot to ride my own ride, I simply didn't factor in the lack of judgment the alcohol had set up.
 
Yup, a deep S curve came up. I barely held the bike in position on the first part, and being totally scared out of my wits, looked down at the line at the right side of the road. You guessed it . . . the bike went where I looked and off the road I went at 80mph.
 
I flew over the ditch and landed the bike but somehow in those "flying" seconds had the presence of mind to recall that I had always planned to "throw" myself away from a bike to the left side and roll away if I ever found myself in a bad situation. I came too flat on my back in a soft field (recently plowed) and could hear the bike still running somewhere off in the distance. I tried to get up but knew something was wrong. Friends rushed up and we ascertained I could wiggle my fingers and toes but couldn't get up as I had injured my collarbone area. The ambulance came and it was determined that I had severely pulled a muscle in the collarbone area. I remember asking friends if anyone had breath mints as I didn't want the added stigma of being under the influence. Geez.
 
I spent six days flat on my back at home because I could barely move or dress myself. I remember talking to God. But in the "thanking part" of my talk, I realized it wasn't God's job to think for me or even save me . . . that the whole thing was of my own making and I had gotten extremely lucky (when I went back to the place I went off the road I saw that a few seconds difference on the timing and I would have hit a tree and been dead).
 
It was lesson learned the very, very hard way . . . not only about my own responsibility . . . but a reminder that God helps those who help themselves. Did He or His angels help me that day . . . I believe they did and I am so thankful for that . . . that I got a chance to continue my life's journey. To this day, when I'm riding, the accident comes to mind, but now I know it's to help me think about what I'm doing at all times.
 
Petra in Calabash, NC

 

 

Dear Petra,

I would like to thank you for taking the time to share your story here in Biker’s Haven.

AND I join you in being thankful that you did not hit that tree and are still here in your journey.

We can do so much for each other when we share our difficult times and lessons learned. Thank you for sharing yours!

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Hi Tink,

My accident happened the first time I got on a bike as the driver.

It was not a big accident, but it was scary. In order to deal with the incident I had to take a humorous view and telling of it. But the reason I had to do that was because if I didn’t try to put it into perspective through humor I would have never gotten back on the bike.

I was trying to keep the bike from stalling. I was uneducated and unaware of the power of the machine. Even a 250 bike is a powerful machine compared to a human body. I was ignorant of all of the things that could go wrong and as such was not capable of keeping bad things from happening. There was no risk management going on at all. Bad scenario.

I let the clutch out too fast and grabbed too much throttle. Because I had no idea that pulling in the clutch would have disengaged the power from the rear wheel, I did not pull it in. The consequences of that was I continued to accelerate and I ran into the front end of my husbands car.

Had I been 2 feet further away from the car I would have been going significantly faster by the time I made contact with the car and most likely would have won myself a ride to the hospital. As it was I put a foot long dent in the front fender with my knee and took out the front headlight with the headlight on the bike.

The car had $600.00 worth of damage. My bike was fine and I was physically fine but completely spooked.

One of the biggest things that helped me find confidence again was the Motorcycle Safety Foundation Course. The information and practice I got in that course has saved me more than a handful of times as I practiced and practiced and even now as I ride.

About three months after that program I got an e-mail from an acquaintance with whom I had taken that Motorcycle Safety Course. We had both gotten our license upon completion of the course. She informed me that about three weeks after the safety course she was on her bike and leaving a friends driveway when, as she released her clutch, she was catapulted forward and crashed into a parked car across the street at the end of the driveway. She had spent much time in the hospital, three months out of work and had much more recovering to do. She was completely spent physically and emotionally and at that point had resolved to only ride as a passenger. I can’t help but imagine how her life has been forever altered because of those few seconds on that bike.

We had similar scenarios, but the results were very, very different.

I think of her a lot and hope she is healing on all levels.

Even the “smallest” of accidents can shake us and those around us to the core. I do feel better when I talk about it though, and I try to share what I have learned from it to help others keep themselves safer. And I listen closely when someone else tells about their close calls or accidents. Not just because I feel camaraderie, but often the person relating the story has some insight into how it could have been avoided which helps me be a better rider. Any way, that’s my story.

Christina

Dear Christina,

Thank you for taking the step to be the first contributor. I am thankful that you have decided to share this with all of us. 

As you pointed out even seemingly small accidents can have long lasting consequences and sometimes it is the injury one cannot see that is the most difficult to deal with. Namely the psychological one. I am glad you did not get hurt but I am sorry to hear about the friend who ended up in the hospital. I know that most riders would wish her well. I hope she finds this site and finds she is not alone in her recovery.

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